After our daughter Evie died five years ago, we decided to have a “celebration” instead of a traditional funeral. Part of that celebration was to be a slideshow of moments from Evie’s life. So in mid-November 2018 I set myself to the bittersweet task of scrolling through iPhoto and dragging photos to a folder. I alternated between laughing and weeping. To the casual observer, I probably looked like a fucking lunatic.
But one photo from April 2014 jumped out at me:
Evie (a.k.a. The Daughter) standing in front of a brick rowhome on Kenilworth Street in South Philly, doing an unconscious imitation of Edvard Munch’s The Scream.
This is the rowhome where my great-grandparents and their children lived after they emigrated from Poland in 1902. I’d only found out about it recently, from a distant cousin who’d tracked the address down in census records. If there was such a thing as an ancestral Swierczynski family home, this was it.
As I stared at the photo, I was so desperate to be back in that moment with Evie, outside 106 Kenilworth. I wanted to tell my younger self to stop and realize how special that moment was. Overwhelmed, I closed iPhoto. I could only do this slideshow in shifts. Trying to do it all at once was way too much.
But for the rest of the day, something about that Kenilworth Street photo nagged at me. A piece of family history I had uncovered, but was now forgetting. I reactivated my Ancestry account and started looking through the tree I’d started more than four years ago. I found it fairly quickly—the thing that nagged at me. Four years ago, it had struck me as heartbreaking. Now, it flat-out wrecked me.
My great-grandfather Anthony Swierczynski had lost his second child, a daughter named Marta, who was 15 years old.
This happened exactly one hundred years before we lost Evie, who was also 15 years old when she died.
My Great Aunt Marta, along with her mother, my great-grandmother Maryanna, perished in the Spanish Flu epidemic of 1918. Which means that my daughter and great aunt were the same age when they died, one hundred years apart:
Marta Swierczynski: 1903 – 1918
Evie Swierczynski: 2003 - 2018
The morning of December 8 I woke up determined to pin down the exact dates that Maryanna and Marta Swierczynski died. I asked Evie for help. I didn’t want to make a habit of this—the last thing I wanted to do was bother her. (“Hey, Daughter, do you know where I put my keys?”) But in this case, I really needed her guidance.
Help me figure out how to find the death certificates for your great-great grandmom Maryanna and your great-great Aunt Marta, I asked.
And I swear, just minutes later, I had one of those blind moments of pure internet luck and found myself faced with a no-frills PDF list of death records in Pennsylvania for the year 1918. I scrolled through until I find my great-grandmother. Her surname—go figure—was mispelled:
Maryanna Swierczinskie; --155299; Phila; Sept. 30.
My great-grandmothers’ full life, including an arduous journey halfway around the world, would be reduced to a single typed line.
But there was no sign of her daughter Marta.
There was a “Martha Swiertz” who died on May 12, 1918 in Mt. Carmel, Pennsylvania (up near Bloomsburg). But that couldn’t be her. Unless Great Aunt Marta died earlier in the year, in another part of the state.
I rechecked my great-grandmother’s listing to see what else I could use. There was the number: 155299. Using it, I was able to track down her death certificate using the browsing feature at Ancestry.com. After about forty minutes of literal doom-scrolling, I found a scan of her actual death certificate.
Maryanna Swierczynski died at 2 a.m. on September 30 from bronchial pneumonia due to influenza. She had been sick for five days. She was only 40 years old.
It made sense that Marta would have died around the same time. Perhaps she was caring for her ailing mother, then fell ill herself? I started to browse forward in time, then backwards. The names of the dead rolled by. So many names. None of the them are my Great Aunt.
I went back to the original no-frills PDF. Is it possible that Marta’s surname has also been mangled, but in a different way?
Yes. It was entirely possible:
Swerczinska, Martha; --151842; Phila; Oct. 5.
And using that number, I was able to find a scan of her death certificate, too.
My Great Aunt Marta died October 5, just five days after her mother passed—and a mere two days after her mother’s funeral. It is doubtful that she had been able to attend. (I have no way of knowing who was healthy enough to be graveside.) Three days later, Marta was laid to rest next to her mother in the same cemetery on the outskirts of Philadelphia.
Both my Great Aunt Marta and Evie died the same month, a century apart.
And I couldn’t believe something so tragic as losing a 15-year-old daughter could be forgotten within a generation or two. Why wasn’t this impossibly sad story passed down? One hundred years from now, will our descendants know nothing of Evie?
“It was generally women who nursed the ill,” Laura Spinney writes in Pale Rider, her history of the 1918 epidemic. “They were the ones who registered the sights and sounds of the sickroom, who laid out the dead and took in the orphans. They were the link between the personal and the collective.”
It would make sense that if the Swierczynski household fell ill, then it would be the two oldest women—my great-grandmother and great aunt—who would care for the sick. Perhaps this was why they didn’t survive.
But also, according to Spinney: “As far as we know, the immune system is just as robust in a fifteen-year-old as it is in a twenty-eight-year-old, yet in 1918, [though] fifteen-year-olds … got ill in large numbers, relatively few of them died.”
Great Aunt Marta was one of the few, then. I don’t know what she looks like, or what her voice sounded like, or what dreams she had. But I feel her, and remember her.
Elsewhere in the Swierczy-verse
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That’s all for now. Be kind to each other and consider taking a moment to explore the untold stories in your own family tree.
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And to think, we weren’t that much older than 15 when we met.
Sending continued hugs and prayers to you and your family.
Hoping your Evie and our Mollie (who was 6 when she passed just months before Evie did) have found each other and are continuing their sparkle-eyed mischief.
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Wow Duane, an astonishing piece of history.